Those dating apps I dunno about them
When I was on them what I found is that the quality women are the ones who aren't on them for long. All the best dates I went on were women who literally just made an account and I was like the second guy they matched. If a woman is on dating apps longer than a few months, she's toast. Men are the same way. If you're friends with guys using dating apps you can even observe the mental changes during the ups/downs rollercoaster ride. If a guy doesn't find a girl after a few months, it's pretty much game over for him too. He starts getting bitter/jaded about the whole dating thing and it comes out in how he deals with women in relationships, etc... which makes it that much harder to find women (lowers his quality so-to-speak).
I keep hearing and believe the modern male has lower testosterone than males of the past and it gets lower every generation.
It's true but men can fix this with TRT and other hormone drugs. High T doesn't solve anything. It's not some magic trick that makes women automatically like you if you have higher T. It just makes you hornier and more assertive which only helps men who didn't need help. A "creepy weirdo" (ugly guy women don't like) who is hornier and more assertive is just gonna land in prison faster for a false rape charge.
I also hear many do not want to get into relationships and have kids due to potential of divorce ( divorce became big with boomers in late 70's and 80's) and do not want to start over at 40 or 50...
This is a big one but it's not the only one. There's actually a lot of men that don't care about the divorce problems that still can't find a woman to marry. There's so many issues with relationships right now, it's difficult to list them all. At the end of the day men want a woman who isn't going to be a liability for him but a lot of women want to be prized by the men such that they become a liability while adding little value to the man herself. It's rare for a man to find a relationship with a woman that's a net positive for him. That's the ultimate issue, if one is trying to be concise. The separation law and child support just makes it so the woman have to bring even more trust to the table (but they don't) so it just makes something that was already hard, a little harder. Most women can't even not be liabilities enough for a man to even consider marriage (despite the issues of separation).
Plus a lot of man child's out there who would rather play video games and live in mama's or granny's basement smoking weed all night but those types are usually reddit mods etc.. I am not into video games that much but as long as not life consuming play away.
A symptom not an underlying problem. These are the guys that try picking up women, get disgusted faces by the women in return and then men quickly learn they have no chance so they just keep playing video games because they've got nothing else to do. But also, there's nothing wrong with playing video games all day. Most people DO NOTHING all day. You browsed freecanada.win all day, instagram, shitpost on facebook, made dinner, witched a tv show, went to the grocery store and did FUCK ALL. Women's expectations that a man should be her entertainment and he should constantly be doing things other than playing video games to serve her interests is precisely the "she needs to add value" issue. A man should be able to fuck his GF, then go straight to video games without her having any problem with that. If she can't entertain herself, she's got problems not the man.
Easy birth control, abortion, divorce etc have doomed the west in a way.
I still think the biggest problem is high taxes and high social programs. I think if taxes were lowered by 80% and government spending was cut by 80% (by abolishing all social programs), this would solve a lot of the issues. Stuff like alimony and 50/50 division of assets and child support need to be done away with entirely too.